Win 2025 Attendees
Empowering…positive reinforcement…great networking! It was one of those rare opportunities for [mostly] young, aspiring career [mostly] women have for a day-long meeting to get great advice and encouragement from women who have achieved leadership roles in the timeshare industry. It was one of those heady events that leave you excited and unable to sleep – the ARDA WIN Winter Conference in Orlando held on January 23, 2025.
According to the keynote speaker, Renie Cavallari, “Successful people aren’t necessarily smarter, happier, or more competent. They are simply better at dumping their HeadTrash!” Her best-seller of that name talks about how our inner critic is the ‘leading killer of human potential.’ Cavallari shared strategies to overcome negative self-talk and to quit questioning yourself.
“Your thoughts shape your reality, but if those thoughts are negative or undermining, they suck your energy and shift your focus from strength and self-confidence to worry and fear,” says Cavallari. She is the founder, CEO, and Chief Instigator of Aspire, a global transformational training and culture development company that specializes in inspired learning that shifts human behavior and awakens potential.
Renie Cavallari is an award-winning organizational anthropologist and is the owner of four companies, most notably the founder of Aspire, www.poweredbyaspire.com, a globally recognized firm which specializes in transformational leadership training that shifts human behavior and strategically improves performance.
She is also the founder of the RCI Institute, www.rciinstitute.com. [I know what you’re thinking: No. Not that RCI!] The RCI Institute in this case is a leadership optimization firm, which also focuses on senior-level executive coaching.
Cavallari’s remarks were aimed at teaching how to stop questioning yourself, which fills you with self-doubt. Her goal was to teach you how to gain the skills to decrease your anxiety, awaken your potential, and find more joy. Filled with humor and real-life stories, listeners came away with practical strategies for self-improvement.
Another session featured a panel of professional women: Catherine Lacey, SVP, Meetings and Member Experience at ARDA; Lanie Kane Hanan, CEO of ONE; Fiona Downing, CEO of FNTX; and Sarah Koves, SVP, Brand Strategy at Travel+Leisure Company, shared valuable insights for women aspiring to advance in the timeshare industry. (See the article, “A Woman’s Guide to Leadership,” in the April 2025 issue of Resort Trades.]
Creating Orlando’s professional women’s soccer club, the Orlando Pride, was a daunting task, according to the club’s founder and ambassador Kay Rawlins. Rawlins helped establish the Pride, a member of the National Women’s Soccer League, which began competing professionally in the 2016 season. Rawlins set an amazing example of what a determined, ambitious woman can achieve. There are only fifteen soccer clubs in the League. There weren’t any women’s clubs in Florida when Rawlins came on the scene fourteen years ago.
Before leaving her home in the U.K. to join her husband in the U.S., she had no involvement in professional sports at all. But she had been an avid season ticket holder for her home team, the Stoke City Football Club, the Potters. When she heard the Potters were looking for American-based affiliates, she knew she just had to get involved. Little did she imagine she’d be one of the founders of the tenth women’s club to join the National Soccer League!
Hers is a tale of how a mom and housewife without a college education seized on a vision, worked her way into a senior position, went back to college to obtain degrees in business and sports education, and become the founder of a professional sports organization.
One interesting take-away she shared was a study proving that the self-discipline and team player mentality students get from playing in school provides them with a marked advantage in the professional world.
Ann Marie Williams, VP, financial advisor, senior portfolio manager, for Morgan Stanley provided a very clear and concise soup-to-nuts set of instructions for planning for your financial future. She began by presenting the basics. What are your assets and income; what are your expenses; and what are your long-term goals?
She explains that the first step in learning to manage your finances is to sit down and perform an honest assessment of where you stand and where you want to go. First, we have to address our relationships with money.
For many of us, we are brought up to postpone considering the topic. Many of us are ashamed about the thoughts, beliefs, and assumptions we have about money. That we never talk about!
For the most part, we are not taught about handling finances in high school or college. Some women+ are embarrassed that they don’t understand investing in the stock market — or even basic financial literacy.
Some women+ try to budget but can’t stick to it and blame themselves. In many cases, we accumulate debt. Car loans, mortgages, student loans…the monthly payments seem so affordable when we’re the buyer. But eventually, we know the piper will demand his due. The key, says Williams, is to remember that we need to be in charge of our long-term future and must take control.
Another skill that’s not typically addressed in school is communications. Perhaps we learned how to diagram a sentence or write a term paper, but how about an effective email? Hilton Grand Vacations’ VP of Communications Bree Balchunas gave basic rules for structuring emails, conducting meetings, and putting together presentations. Most of her advice was centered around keeping the message clear and concise.
She explained there should be three parts to an email: the title, which should tell the reader what’s going on; the body of the text, which should state the objective or purpose of the email; and a call to action. Any other ancillary information goes below the fold.
Brevity should be the rule when it comes to conducting a meeting. She suggests the following:
● Prepare an agenda in advance.
● Define the purpose.
● Start on time.
● End early in 25-to-30 minutes or less.
● Wrap up by reviewing action items.
Balchunas had great tips for presentations:
Following Balchunas’ advice on business communications, Marlaine Hudgins, associate director, digital workplace communications for Marriott Vacations Worldwide explained the role on using CoPilot. AI is such a new and burgeoning tool, we’ve only uncovered the tip of the iceberg when it comes to assisting us in our careers and in furthering the interests of our organizations.
In her office, Hudgins explains that it’s like having a digital assistant that can help you draft emails, summarize meeting notes, generate reports, search for information, and create presentations.
Copilot Explains:
Copilot’s explanation encourages its use as a way to can save time, increase efficiency, and focus on more strategic tasks. As a value-added bonus: because it’s AI-powered, it learns and improves over time.
In Resort Trades offices, we have found ChatGPT4 to answer our needs in many cases. For the purpose of this article, I asked ChatGPT to explain the difference:
While both ChatGPT-4 and Copilot offer AI-powered assistance for business communications, they serve different purposes and excel in distinct areas depending on an organization’s needs.
The choice between Copilot and ChatGPT-4 depends on the business’s existing infrastructure and needs:
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